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Private Declare Function FindWindow Lib "user32" Alias "FindWindowA" ( _
ByVal lpClassName As String, ByVal lpWindowName As String) As Long
Private Declare Function GetWindowLong Lib "user32" Alias "GetWindowLongA" ( _
ByVal hWnd As Long, ByVal nIndex As Long) As Long
Private Declare Function SetWindowLong Lib "user32" Alias "SetWindowLongA" ( _
ByVal hWnd As Long, ByVal nIndex As Long, ByVal dwNewLong As Long) As Long
Private Declare Function GetSystemMenu Lib "user32" ( ByVal hWnd As Long, _
ByVal bRevert As Long) As Long
Private Declare Function DeleteMenu Lib "user32" ( ByVal hMenu As Long, _ByVal nPosition As Long, _
ByVal wFlags As Long) As Long
Private Declare Function ShowWindow Lib "user32" ( ByVal hWnd As Long, ByVal nCmdShow As Long) As Long
Private Declare Function EnableWindow Lib "user32" ( ByVal hWnd As Long, ByVal fEnable As Long) As Long
Private Declare Function DrawMenuBar Lib "user32" ( ByVal hWnd As Long) As Long
Private Declare Function SetFocus Lib "user32" ( ByVal hWnd As Long) As Long
Private Declare Function ExtractIcon Lib "shell32.dll" Alias "ExtractIconA" ( _
ByVal hInst As Long, ByVal lpszExeFileName As String, ByVal nIconIndex As Long) As Long
Private Declare Function SendMessage Lib "user32" Alias "SendMessageA" ( _
ByVal hWnd As Long, ByVal wMsg As Long, ByVal wParam As Integer, ByVal lParam As Long) As Long
Private Declare Function LockWindowUpdate Lib "user32" ( ByVal hWndLock As Long) As Long
'Window styles
Private Const GWL_STYLE As Long = (-16)
Private Const GWL_EXSTYLE As Long = (-20)
Private Const WS_CAPTION As Long = &HC00000
Private Const WS_EX_APPWINDOW As Long = &H40000
Private Const WS_EX_TOOLWINDOW As Long = &H80
Private hWnd As Long
Private Sub UserForm_Activate()
Dim lStyle As Long, hMenu As Long
hWnd = FindWindow("ThunderDFrame", Me.Caption)
If hWnd = 0 Then Exit Sub
lStyle = GetWindowLong(hWnd, GWL_STYLE)
lStyle = lStyle And Not WS_CAPTION
SetWindowLong hWnd, GWL_STYLE, lStyle
lStyle = GetWindowLong(hWnd, GWL_EXSTYLE)
lStyle = lStyle And Not WS_EX_APPWINDOW
lStyle = lStyle And Not WS_EX_TOOLWINDOW
SetWindowLong hWnd, GWL_EXSTYLE, lStyle
DrawMenuBar hWnd
SetFocus hWnd
End Sub