Per the Cross posting, post the address of this thread in the other site's thread and that thread's address in this thread.

The reason you are not getting any responses might be because you are going against every precept of good GUI design principles.

Per your question:

Use the controls' TabIndex Property to set the order in which the focus moves to. IOW, The TabIndex of the first control the user should be in is = 1. The TabIndex of the next control to get the focus is 2, the next = 3.

You can see all the Properties of the controls in the Properties Window (Press F4)